Return to Safety —Awaken Your Inner Warrior
Have you been living a life held back by fear and insecurity?One moment everything feels calm until money, relationships, work or something else triggers a reaction leaving you shut down and stuck in a very familiar pattern. You know you’re capable of more yet that voice—“I’m not good enough” or “I don’t have enough”—pulls you back. You long for adventure but excuses creep in and the very familiar feelings of survival mode take over.
You yearn to trust life again, to believe you shape your reality but old patterns return and before you know it years have passed and you’ve never reached your highest potential.You feel stuck.No more. This is your call to action. Like a scarab beetle emerging from the darkness, find your wings and soar Warrior.
Now is the time!
You were born with wings, why crawl when you can soar?
I once crawled too....At the age of three, my father — a dangerous man — abandoned my mother and I. What followed was a childhood of chaos, uncertainty, fear, and scarcity. We went from wealth and fast cars to me sleeping under fabric tables while my mother worked in factories struggling to put food on the table.Growing up, I lived with three prominent wounds:-The fear of abandonment
-The fear of not having enough
-The fear of not being good enoughThis shaped my early life into one of survival. At age 14 I turned to cannabis to escape and later, to the gym, steroids, and martial arts to protect myself. On the outside I looked strong. On the inside, I still felt unsafe, unworthy, and restless.Everything shifted when I began my journey of self-discovery.
Through nervous system regulation, Compassionate processing of past Trauma, emotional wisdom, natural movement, strength training, meditation, applied metaphysics, martial arts, breath-work and most importantly- heart space living, I found new ways of being. I learned that true safety doesn’t come from the outside world, It comes from within.Today, I guide others along this same path. My mission is to help people reclaim their balance, awaken their intuitive wisdom, and find the deep inner safety that allows them to live with clarity, strength, and freedom.
"The wound is the place where the light enters you". Rumi.
a Scarab Warriors Journey
SHADOWS TURN INTO STRENGTHS
“Darkness is not the enemy. It is the womb of light.”
— Osho
At Scarab Warrior what I offer first is my presence—an open-hearted and grounded space where you can feel safe to unravel. This is not just a coaching session but a safe container held by my deep commitment to being fully present with you in the here and now. In this space we gently explore the stories, the emotions and the feelings beyond words. We acknowledge childhood wounds and trauma often suppressed and forgotten that shape our beliefs and perceptions.We acknowledge the pain we carry and the emotional imprints projected out into the world that lead us to believe we are victims of our circumstances.Then comes the breakthrough.You awaken to your potential and reconnect with your truth, your courage and your capacity to grow beyond what you once thought possible. In this way we transform the shadows into strengths.
“Trauma is not in the event — it is in the body. And it is the body that knows the way out.”
— Peter Levine
MY METHOD FOR REAL CHANGE
“The body keeps the score. It remembers what the mind forgets.”
— Bessel van der Kolk
My method for real change is built on three simple but powerful pillars.First, Awareness We learn to feel again by becoming aware of our wounds, our emotional imprints, and the energy we project. Through somatic practices, we tune into the body, feeling sensations and emotions without judgment. While awareness is the core, I also guide you toward natural movement and strength training—not as the focus, but as a powerful tool to reconnect with your body and release stored Trauma, drawing on my 20 years in the industry.Next, Acceptance We practice accepting everything as it is, without judgment. By staying present—using breathwork and meditation—we become observers of our lives, witnessing emotions without getting caught in them. We also feel ourselves as energetic beings, allowing emotional wisdom to grow so we stay present, accepting, and letting life flow.Finally, Authenticity This is about discovering who we are beyond the physical. I share wisdom from my eight years of studying metaphysics and ancient teachings so we can understand ourselves deeply as beings of energy. We explore what it means to be authentic, knowing that from a young age we often gave up our truth for survival. As we return to safety in our nervous system, we learn to trust again—trust in ourselves, in life, and that we don’t have to control everything. By knowing who we are we set boundaries, express our needs, learn how to communicate and trust our own intuition to lead us forward.Although this structured approach is key, we let each session unfold naturally—like pulling a thread from a piece of wool, allowing it to guide us. Each session takes its own form as we follow intuition in the moment. It’s not a rigid path that I dictate; it’s a dance we do together. The most important offering I give is the safe container—my presence with you, my ability to feel with you, and the subtle metaphysical energy I bring into each session. This allows for a real unraveling—one that words can’t fully describe, but that you will feel as it happens.
INNER PEACE
FREEDOM
CONNECTION
WISDOM
About me
At the heart of my journey is a deep reverence for nature and the wisdom it holds. Walking barefoot through the forest, feeling the cool earth beneath me, I find stillness. In those quiet moments, I tune into the language of the trees, the elements, and something far greater than myself. Nature grounds me — it reminds me who I am when the noise of the world fades.But I didn’t always feel this connected.For a long time, I lived in survival mode — carrying abandonment wounds, a fear of failure, and a deep belief that I wasn’t enough. I played the role of the “Mr. Nice Guy,” giving endlessly in hopes of being accepted and loved. Anger, anxiety, and depression were familiar companions.Through years of healing, movement, and self-inquiry, I’ve learned to meet life differently. I’m learning, every day, to be more present with what is — to observe without judgment and to return to the sensations within my body. When I breathe and allow life to move through me, I find freedom. Because when we react, blame, or resist what’s happening outside of us, we become slaves to our minds and emotions. But when we let life flow — with awareness and acceptance — we discover the wisdom of embodiment.This path hasn’t been easy. It’s been filled with challenges that have humbled and deepened me. After 20 years in the wellness industry, my journey began with the physical body — as a personal trainer and strength coach — but over time it evolved. From functional movement to MovNat, from metaphysics to bioenergetics, I’ve travelled from the surface of the body into the depths of the soul.The exploration of knowing thyself is eternal. I am forever a student — but I am ready to share what I’ve learned so far.
“Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky.
Conscious breathing is my anchor.”
– Thich Nhat Hanh
Evan Stoffberg
“The seed cannot sprout upwards without simultaneously sending roots into the earth.
So our spiritual growth requires that we be deeply rooted in the body and in the earth.”
– Osho
THE PATHS YOU CAN WALK
Transformation is not one-size-fits-all.
At Scarab Warrior, I offer two pathways designed to meet you exactly where you are—whether you’re seeking deep personal transformation or a supportive group journey back to safety, connection and self-awareness.
THE PATH OF THE WARRIOR
12-Week Private Mentorship JourneyThis is my deepest and most personalised offering.A 12-week 1:1 container for those who are ready to break old patterns, reconnect with themselves and step fully into their authentic power. Together we work at the root—exploring trauma, emotional imprints, nervous system regulation and the unconscious patterns shaping your life.Through weekly 90-minute sessions we create a grounded space for deep unraveling, somatic work, emotional processing, metaphysical exploration and practical transformation.This journey may include:* Somatic and trauma-informed processing
* Nervous system regulation and emotional awareness
* Breathwork, meditation and embodiment practices
* Strength, movement and lifestyle guidance
* Metaphysical teachings and energetic awareness
* Support with boundaries, purpose and authentic expression
* Ongoing voice note or messaging support between sessionsThis is not surface-level coaching.
It is a return to safety, truth and inner alignment.A journey from survival to presence.
From shadow to strength.
RETURNING TO SAFETYGroup Transformation Experience
A guided group journey for those wanting support, awareness and transformation within a shared space.Through weekly 90-minute live calls we explore the foundations of emotional healing, nervous system regulation, self-awareness and authentic living. While less individually focused than private mentorship, this container still offers powerful tools, practices and insights to support meaningful change.Together we learn to slow down, reconnect with the body, understand our patterns and create greater safety within ourselves and our lives.This space includes:* Weekly live group sessions
* Breathwork and meditation practices
* Somatic awareness and emotional processing tools
* Teachings on trauma, authenticity and nervous system regulation
* Practical tools for self-awareness and daily integration
* A supportive community walking the path alongside youThis is a space to reconnect, regulate and remember who you are beneath the survival patterns.
Testimonials
What My Clients are Saying
Thanks Evan for an amazing journey and some deep insights.You’ve educated and gone the extra mile and given specific movements to rehabilitate and bullet-proof me against injuries.
You’ve gone from coach to a true friend.
Much appreciated. 🙏
Greg Howley
Quantity Surveyor. S.A
I am writing to provide a wholehearted endorsement of Evan, an extraordinary coach who has significantly impacted my life and well-being. Evan transformed my perception of exercise from a daunting task to an accessible and enjoyable part of my routine. Through tailored exercise routines that align with my fitness level and preferences, Evan made physical activity both fun and effective, infusing each workout with variety and positive reinforcement.
One of the most transformative aspects of my training was the focus on natural movement, which emphasized using the body in ways it was naturally designed to move. This approach profoundly improved my posture, strength, and overall health. Additionally, Evan's holistic approach to health, encompassing not just exercise, but nutrition, mental well-being, and lifestyle habits, helped me achieve a more balanced and fulfilling lifestyle.
I am immensely grateful for the positive impact Evan has had on my life and wholeheartedly recommend him to anyone seeking to embark on a transformative fitness journey.
Johan Van Noordwyk
IT Security/ S.A
Before working with Evan I was constantly stressed and feeling overwhelmed, his approach gave me more than tools it offered me a new way of being. Through Evan’s intuitive guidance, primal movement, and deeply grounding practices, I found clarity, balance, and a renewed sense of belonging.
Thank you my friend
Peter.V.D
Architect/ S.A
Evan’s work is the real deal. I didn’t realise how little I actually knew about myself and just how disconnected I was too until I started this journey. His approach helped me get out of my head, back into my body, and reconnect with what’s actually important.I feel stronger, clearer, and more at peace than I have in years.S.D. Samuels
Retail CEO/ U.K
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Also running Rising Sons, a mentorship program designed to guide young men into strength, clarity, and self-leadership.
In today’s world, young men are pulled in many directions — technology, peer pressure, uncertainty about the future. What they often lack is guidance, connection, and a safe space to grow.That’s why we created Rising Sons, a premium 16-week mentorship program for young men (ages 18–25). Through movement, self-reflection, and heart-centered mentorship, we help them cultivate:-Self-worth and confidence-Emotional intelligence and resilience-Responsibility, respect, and leadership-Balance between strength and compassionFor parents, this is peace of mind — knowing your son is supported in becoming the man he’s meant to be.
The Story of the Scarab Warrior: A Journey of TransformationThe scarab beetle, symbolizing transformation, begins its journey by rolling a ball of dung, turning something discarded into something fertile. However, as it focuses on its task, it discovers that it has wings and can fly, breaking free from the constraints of the earthbound work. This realization reflects the human experience: we often feel trapped in repetitive cycles, but like the scarab, we possess untapped potential and the ability to rise above our challenges, embracing our higher purpose and the freedom to soar. The Scarab Warrior, through this journey, embodies the power of transformation, reminding us all that within us lies the strength to overcome the mundane and embrace our true power.